| 1. Sex is about power and we struggle to have power and control over eachother. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 2. When our sex life is off, I feel unloved. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 3. For one or both of us, there is a high level of guilt asociated with our sex life |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 4. We often argue about sex or because of sex. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 5. Sex is often used to influence nonsexual parts of our relationship. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 6. When I think about our sex life, I feel anxious, angry or resentful. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 7. I know how to make my partner laugh and love to do so. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 8. My partner often takes me for granted and doesn't put any effort into our relationship. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 9. We need a reason for sex, it doesn't "just happen." |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 10. I like my partner's sexual technique. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 11. I trust my partner. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 12. My partner frequently does thinks sexually that I dislike |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 13. There is about the same level of giving of pleasure in our sex. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 14. I frequently express my love my love for my partner (words, notes, kisses, looks, gifts, etc.) |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 15. In the right situation, I would probably cheat on my partner |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 16. I feel that we have great communication about sex. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 17. When we have sex, I feel connection, intimacy, closeness, and affection for my partner that lasts lo |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 18. We can talk about the attractiveness of other people to us without getting jealous. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 19. There is a good deal of laughter and humor in our sex life. |
Disagree |
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Agree |
| 20. We are both "generally" happy with the frequency of our sex |
Disagree |
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Agree |
